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Should Your Child Attend a Selective School
If They Barely Qualify?
Considerations for Parents Making Educational Decisions
"It's better to be a big fish in a small pond than to be a small fish in a big pond"
Based on insights from an educational specialist
The Central Question
“If my child just scrapes into a selective school, should they attend?”
A question that many parents face when their child qualifies for a selective school, but is near the bottom of the admission rankings.
❓ Why This Matters

This decision significantly impacts your child's academic journey, self-esteem, and future opportunities.

⚖️ What We'll Explore

The benefits and challenges of selective schools, and how to determine what environment will best support your child's development.

Based on experience with thousands of students over the past decade 🎓
The Expert Recommendation
“I personally think it is not a good idea to scrape into a selective school.”
✅ Exceptions to Consider
  • 🟢 Child didn't do much preparation for selective tests
  • 🟢 Didn't prepare enough but has untapped potential
⚠️ When to Be Cautious
  • 🔴 Child worked extremely hard just to qualify
  • 🔴 Already pushing the limits of their abilities
"It's better to be a big fish in a small pond than to be a small fish in a big pond."
Challenges of Being in the "Bottom 50"
🏆 Extreme Competition

Top selective schools are intensely competitive environments. Students who just barely qualify must work exceptionally hard just to keep up with their peers.

🧠 Higher IQ Requirements

Today's top selective schools typically require students to have an IQ of 130+ (top 1%). A decade ago, students could get in with 110–120 IQ levels.

📋 Difficult Internal Assessments

To differentiate between high-performing students, top schools set internal assessments at a much higher level than standard HSC requirements.

❤️ Psychological Impact

Being consistently in the lower ranks affects self-esteem, well-being, and can create unnecessary stress. It's "not a pretty sight" to be in the bottom 50.

💡 Real-world Example:

Some students have transferred from one selective school to another, only to transfer back because they couldn't handle the increased pressure and competition.

The Changing Landscape of Selective Schools
🕰️ Then vs. Now
🔹 10 Years Ago:
  • ✅ Lower entry requirements (110–120 IQ sufficient)
  • ✅ Less intensive preparation needed
  • ✅ More accessible with basic preparation
🔻 Today:
  • ⚠️ Higher entry requirements (130+ IQ needed)
  • ⚠️ Extensive preparation essential
  • ⚠️ Near-perfect scores required for top schools
🎯 Better Alternatives
Schools Ranked 11–20:
  • ⭐ Less pressure, still excellent education
  • ⭐ Room for 5–6 mistakes on assessments
  • ⭐ Better balance of challenge and support
💡 Expert advice:

"There are way too many parents aiming for the top five schools" when schools ranked 11–20 offer excellent opportunities with less extreme competition.

Performance Requirements for Top Schools

📊 What scores are needed for top selective schools today?

🧮 Mathematics
  • Top 5 Schools: 33–35/35 — near-perfect scores required
  • Schools Ranked 11–20: 29–32/35 — allows 5–6 mistakes
📚 English & Thinking Skills
  • English: 85–90%
  • Thinking Skills: 80–85%
💡 Key Insight:

"To get into a top five selective school, you need to be very well trained and very accurate. It's not possible with just natural intelligence alone."

School Selection Based on Student Performance
📈 Results from a representative mock test provide guidance on appropriate school targeting
📊 Assessment Findings from 500+ Test Participants

Based on a selective mock test open to both Year 5 and Year 6 students, with results analysed and mapped to the 2024 selective school test requirements.

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Top 100 Rank

Top 5 Schools

Very good chance of getting into the most competitive selective schools

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Rank 100–150

Schools Ranked 11–20

Excellent schools with more balanced competition and support

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Rank 150–250

Schools Ranked 20–30

Strong academic environments with achievable entry requirements

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Below 250 Rank

Schools Ranked 30–50

Solid selective schools with supportive learning environments

💡 Expert Recommendation:

"Schools ranked 11–20 are much more palatable to most parents and students. The process of getting into these schools is not as tricky, but they still offer excellent education."

Be Realistic About Your Child's Abilities
⚖️ Finding the right balance between challenge and support for your child
⚖️ Finding the Right Balance

Parents often either push too hard or don't push enough. Find the middle ground that respects your child's actual abilities and potential.

📈 Track Academic Progress

Monitor your child's academic performance to understand their genuine potential and appropriate school level. Look for patterns rather than isolated achievements.

❗ Avoid Outdated Information

Be cautious of basing decisions on experiences from several years ago. The selective school landscape has changed dramatically in recent years.

🎯 Aim Appropriately

Most children with moderate training are capable of accessing schools ranked 11–30. Top 10 schools require both exceptional ability and intensive preparation.

💬 "Be a little bit more gracious with your children. Understand what their actual levels are. There's no point forcing a child into an environment where they'll struggle unnecessarily."

💡 Key Insight:

The right school environment allows your child to thrive academically while maintaining good self-esteem and well-being. Being above average in a mid-tier school is better than struggling at the bottom of a top school.

Decision-Making Framework
🧭 How to make the right selective school decision for your child
🧠 Assess True Potential
  • ✔️ Use standardised assessments
  • ✔️ Consider IQ and natural abilities
  • ✔️ Evaluate genuine work capacity
⚖️ Weigh the Environment
  • ✔️ Consider competition intensity
  • ✔️ Evaluate internal assessment difficulty
  • ✔️ Assess emotional support available
🏅 Prioritise Wellbeing
  • ✔️ Value self-esteem and confidence
  • ✔️ Consider stress management
  • ✔️ Aim for academic enjoyment
💡 The Ideal Position:

Aim for your child to be in the top half of their chosen school rather than the bottom quarter of a more prestigious school.

Key Takeaways: Making the Right Decision
🎓 Final guidance on selective school decisions for your child's future
🔷 Remember
  • ✔️ Position in class matters more than school prestige
  • ✔️ Top schools need both natural ability & prep
  • ✔️ Schools ranked 11–20 offer excellent education
📌 Actions to Take
  • ➡️ Use mock tests to assess ability
  • ➡️ Target schools where child can thrive
  • ➡️ Prioritise mental wellbeing alongside academics

"The goal isn't just getting into a prestigious school. The goal is finding an environment where your child can thrive academically, develop confidence, and enjoy their educational journey."

— From experienced educators

💡 Success comes from the right match between student and school.

👩‍🏫 For more guidance, seek advice from educational specialists who understand the current selective school landscape.